Possessiveness!!!

It's an universal feel.

Many times psychosomatic stress because of possessiveness leads to sleepless nights which may later leads to a disease called insomnia.

Dictionary Meaning:
pos·ses·sive /pəˈzɛsɪv/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[puh-zes-iv] Pronunciation Key –adjective

1.	jealously opposed to the personal independence of, or to any influence other than one's own upon, a child, spouse, etc.

2.	desirous of possessing, esp. excessively so: Young children are so possessive they will not allow others to play with their toys; a possessive lover.

3.	of or pertaining to possession or ownership.

Possessiveness @ different stages:

A child will be more possessive on everything. He wont allow others to touch his toys, pointing to his mother/father he will frequently say to others that "it's my mom/dad", wont give eatables to others easily. But what I more insist on is the possessiveness on relationship. The child will never allow anybody else to sleep on his mom or dad's lap.In a family if the mother gives birth to second child, she have to care more of that new born. But the first child will then start crying or fighting with parents that they are not taking care of him. At worst cause he may try to harm the new born. Everything is because of the universal feeling called possessiveness of the child on his mother.


When he grow up and goes to a school. He will be possessive on some of the friends/teachers. If his friend is spending more attention on somebody or somebody tries to be closer with his friends he will turn violent because of the feel. Else if his favorite teachers doesn't talk well to him or if he cares more about some other student he will became irritated.

During adolescent age when he falls in love with somebody. He will be deadly possessive on her. He always want her not to any other guys, she should spend more time with him, should care more about him, like this the list keep going. And one stage he will become mad such that always thinking about her that too when she is away from him.

When he got married & bear a child. As the child grows it will get new relationship when his child fall in love, there comes his possessiveness on his child. He will feel that his child has been controlled or more inclined to his love interest only.

And at old age when they retire & reach second childishness they expect more attention towards them from their children. That expectation is because of their possessiveness on their child.

Why I write about possessiveness??? Because I'm becoming mad due to possessiveness.