Love Marriage in India

The phrase love marriage/arranged marriage can be heard only in India. As many of you know Indian is filled with lot of tradition and culture. Most of the Indian marriages are ruled by caste culture.

In India children's are more bonded with their parents than most other countries. Apart from some Asian countries it's very rare to see children wait till their parents get them a bride/groom.

I don't know why Indian society is so interested in an individuals personal life? What it's for them if a guy & girl are in love? If a guy is in love it's moderate offense if a girl is in love it's highly offense. If somebody see a girl roaming with a guy then they start preaching that the girl is of bad character.

When coming to love marriage in India it's really a huge task. The problems come from various angles they may be of different caste, religion, status, parents ego & lot more...

There is one more tradition that in a family if there is an elder brother & younger sister with age difference of less than 5-6 years then then brother can marry only after arranging for his younger sisters marriage. It was a good old tradition when most of the Indian families were poor. Why it was happening so in the past was if a guy got married then he will start living separately & will concentrate only on his own family wont care about his sister. But its not the situation these days, now even girls are earning much more.

You might have heard of process going to D-State in Linux. It's nothing but an infinite sleep by a process waiting for a resource to be released. Here I give a example of D-State in human. Let's say in India there is a family (A) with an elder brother(M) & a younger sister(N) & another family (B) with an elder brother(O) & a younger sister(P). Now N & O are in love both are of similar age and O can marry N only after arranging P's marriage (bcoz P is O's younger sister). But P is much younger to marry so O&N have to wait for some more years. Bcoz of this M have to wait since N is M's younger sister. So only after P's Marriage N&O can marry and only after that M can marry. It looks strange, isn't it? So here M have to be in D-state until N get married.